Responding with Care, Clarity, and Compassion

This is the final post in the Mental Health at Work Series: Real Needs Real Solutions.

Workplace crises come in many forms. A traumatic event, a sudden loss, a mental health emergency, or even a violent incident in the community can create shockwaves throughout an organization. For employees, these moments are deeply personal. For HR professionals and leaders, they’re a test of the culture you’ve built.

The American Psychological Association’s “From Milestones to Crisis” report lists crisis response as one of the three major moments when employees need mental health support the most. And yet, many workplaces feel underprepared to respond.

Let’s change that.

What Does a Crisis Look Like?

Not every crisis makes the news. But even small-scale events can have a big impact on your people:

  • An employee experiencing suicidal thoughts
  • A death in the workplace or among a team member’s loved ones
  • A natural disaster, local tragedy, or workplace accident
  • A public-facing incident that threatens employee safety or security
  • Sudden layoffs or internal restructuring

Crises bring fear, uncertainty, grief, and emotional overload. Left unsupported, employees often experience increased absenteeism, reduced engagement, or long-term psychological effects.

Where Employers Play a Vital Role

You don’t need to have all the answers. But you do need to:

  • Communicate clearly
  • Act with urgency
  • Protect privacy
  • Offer resources
  • Create psychological safety

Here are steps every organization can take to show up in meaningful ways when crisis hits:

1. Be Proactive, Not Reactive

Don’t wait for a crisis to hit. Prepare ahead of time with a plan:

    • Create a critical incident response policy
    • Clarify who communicates what and when
    • Identify mental health and safety contacts
    • Train managers on trauma-informed leadership

The best time to prepare is before you need it.

2. Acknowledge the Human Impact

After a crisis, silence can feel dismissive. Address the situation directly and empathetically. Acknowledge that people may be grieving, angry, confused, or numb. Use language that centers humanity:

“We know this has impacted many of you deeply. Your feelings are valid, and you are not alone.”

3. Center Safety and Support

If the event involved violence, loss, or fear:

    • Reiterate what steps you’re taking to keep everyone safe
    • Remind employees of their EAP and counseling options
    • Consider offering trauma-specific support sessions or grief counselors

Make it easy for employees to access help without stigma or red tape.

4. Train Leaders on Crisis Response

Frontline supervisors are often the first point of contact when someone is in distress. Equip them to respond with care:

    • Provide scripts like: “I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You don’t have to face it alone. Can I help you get connected to support?”
    • Encourage them to check in with teams, even briefly
    • Normalize flexibility and time off when needed

5. Follow Up. Then Follow Through.

Check in again a few weeks after a crisis. Ask:

    • How are people coping?
    • Is there anything else they need?
    • What can we learn to improve our response next time?

Continuing the conversation shows your support isn’t performative—it’s real.

Individual Responsibility, Collective Culture

While employers carry a big piece of the puzzle, employees also shape workplace mental health. In a respectful culture, every person plays a role:

  • Don’t minimize or mock someone’s response to a crisis
  • Respect privacy when people share difficult news
  • Offer to listen, support, or cover shifts as needed

Respect isn’t just about tone—it’s about being present, being kind, and being human.

Looking Ahead: Mental Health as a Strategic Priority
Responding well to a crisis isn’t just damage control—it builds long-term trust. In fact, organizations that support employees through trauma often see stronger loyalty and deeper engagement.

Yet, only 35% of HR professionals say their organization is prepared to address mental health needs after a traumatic event (Lyra Health, 2024).

Let’s do better.

Here’s how you can start:

  • Add mental health crisis support to your training calendar
  • Review your policies and EAP offerings (don’t have one, consider Canopy https://canopywell.com/Employee-Assistance)
  • Host a table talk or lunch-and-learn on trauma-informed leadership
  • Keep Mental Health Awareness Month conversations going year-round

Because when the worst happens, your people will remember how you showed up. Let’s make sure we show up with compassion, clarity, and care.

Honoring The One Who Knows Too Much

Ah, Best Friends Day—a time to celebrate the one person who knows all your secrets, has seen you at your absolute worst, and somehow still claims you in public. On June 8, 2025, we honor the besties, ride-or-dies, and emotional support humans who make life infinitely more entertaining.

The Stages of Best Friendship
Best friendships don’t happen overnight. No, they are built through a series of trust exercises (intentional or accidental) that prove your loyalty, including:

The “Will You Lie for Me?” Phase
You casually test the waters with something minor—like “If I leave this party early, will you tell everyone I got food poisoning?” The best friend response? “Of course. I’ll even add dramatic details for realism.”

The “I Need You to Validate My Terrible Decisions” Phase
Whether it’s a questionable haircut, a toxic ex, or the third iced coffee of the day, your best friend supports you 100%. Maybe with a slight side-eye, but support nonetheless.

The “We Communicate in Glances Now” Phase
No words are needed. A single look across the room says everything: “This meeting should have been an email.” “That person is lying.” “We need to leave immediately.” Telepathy achieved.

The “I’ve Seen You Ugly Cry and I Still Love You” Phase
If someone has held you while you sobbed over a failed work project, a canceled TV show, or an online shopping mistake, congratulations—you have a true best friend.

How to Celebrate Best Friends Day (Without Getting Arrested)

  • Reminisce About Your Most Embarrassing Moments – Preferably in public. Loudly.
  • Exchange Gifts That Make No Sense to Anyone Else – A rock from a trip five years ago? A photo of that one waiter who looked like that one movie star? Peak bestie energy.
  • Coordinate Your Outfits (Badly) – Whether it’s matching pajamas or a recreation of your questionable fashion choices from high school, go all in.
  • Send an Unhinged Text at 2 AM – Best friends don’t judge middle-of-the-night thoughts like “If tomatoes are fruit, is ketchup a smoothie?”

A Final Word to Best Friends Everywhere
Best friends are a rare and precious breed—the only people who will call you out on your nonsense while simultaneously hyping you up. So, on June 8, send that dramatic “I couldn’t survive without you” text, plan a day of chaos, and remind your bestie why they’ve made the (possibly regrettable) choice to stick with you.

And if you’re reading this thinking, Wait… do I have a best friend?—good news! It’s never too late to start annoying someone into loving you. Happy Best Friends Day!